In nepali, this word means the same as it means in hindi – poor thing!
The occasion is dussehra holidays. We call it Dasai here in the local language. It’s a major festive event with loads of celebrating – eating, drinking and making merry. I called my maid today afternoon and we had this conversation.
Me: Here, I got you a few things for the dasai celebrations in your house.
She: Bichara, mam!!! There was no need…
Me: Dont be silly. Here’s a kilo of mutton for your family today evening. I know you cook fab so enjoy!
She: Bichara!!! Really, there was no need…
Me: And here’s a bottle of whiskey for your kind husband. Hope he likes it.
She: Bichara!!! Oh no… this is too much…
Me: Uff! I havent finished. Here’s a packet of gulab jamuns. These are for your children (she has four) I thought I’d get them something too.
She: Oh, you didnt have to take so much trouble… bichara…
Me: And last but not the least, here’s your salary for the last month. I’ve added some more cash so that you can go buy something nice you like.
She: Oh… oh… bichara…
Me: WILL YOU STOP SAYING BICHARA???
By the time she left (still saying bichara on her way out), I felt really sorry for myself.
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