Being bichara

In nepali, this word means the same as it means in hindi - poor thing!

The occasion is dussehra holidays. We call it Dasai here in the local language. It’s a major festive event with loads of celebrating - eating, drinking and making merry. I called my maid today afternoon and we had this conversation.

Me: Here, I got you a few things for the dasai celebrations in your house.

She: Bichara, mam!!! There was no need…

Me: Dont be silly. Here’s a kilo of mutton for your family today evening. I know you cook fab so enjoy!

She: Bichara!!! Really, there was no need…

Me: And here’s a bottle of whiskey for your kind husband. Hope he likes it.

She: Bichara!!! Oh no… this is too much…

Me: Uff! I havent finished. Here’s a packet of gulab jamuns. These are for your children (she has four) I thought I’d get them something too.

She: Oh, you didnt have to take so much trouble… bichara…

Me: And last but not the least, here’s your salary for the last month. I’ve added some more cash so that you can go buy something nice you like.

She: Oh… oh… bichara…

Me: WILL YOU STOP SAYING BICHARA???

By the time she left (still saying bichara on her way out), I felt really sorry for myself.

14 Responses to “Being bichara”


  1. 1 Sreedevi

    Bichara……….. All those maids who are not working for you.

  2. 2 Rinchen

    Bichara… unnikutta… we havent seen each other in 7 years either.

  3. 3 Deepak

    I’m just curious… why do you call her “unnikutta”? Does it have anything to do with “akkasoto”? :P

  4. 4 Vidya

    “Bichara” the most used word in Nepali:) , the usage and meaning varies with the circumstances.
    But why were u a “bichara” in this conversation??? for having so much money spent on her :) ha ha ha

  5. 5 Sreedevi

    Yes Deepak. Impressive mystery solving.

    Akkusotto is her name.
    While in collage hostel,we saw Yodha together.

    Akkusotto..,
    Akku means uncle in Nepali.Isn’t it?

  6. 6 GWBE

    If there was an employer of the year survey on maids, you’d come out as the top employer! Whoa girl!

  7. 7 Deepak

    @sreedevi: It was just some luck. Rinchen always reminds me of Dolma Ammayi, that’s how I made the connection. :P

  8. 8 Raven

    ah! u r such a generous lady, and u ve got urself a grateful maid too. oh! now i envy u..btw happy dasai..(hope i got that rite)

  9. 9 Rinchen

    Hey, who is Dolma Ammayi???

  10. 10 Rinchen

    Deepak and Sree - In Yodha, the little (kidnapped) lama kid yells Akusotto!!! while Mohanlal runs after him saying Unnikutta!!! :P Aku means Uncle, all right. Hahaha…

    GWBE - I also want to apply for a job in that company.

    Raven - happy dasai! The maid’s disappeared for a week, thanks to puja vacations. A certain generous lady’s house is a mess consequently. ;)

  11. 11 Sreedevi

    Akusotto..

    Dolma Ammayi is the Nepali wife of Mohanlal’s uncle in the same movie.

  12. 12 Rinchen

    Ohhh… thats why the name Dolma! How duh of me :)

    Ipo manasilai!

  13. 13 Professional Lab

    lol. Bichara….. like this word.

  14. 14 Rinchen

    Long live Indian Bloggers Inc :)

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